isaacmartinez:

i hate it when girls say, “all guys are the same.” no. all guys that you like are the same. admit it girls, you don’t go for the “nice guy;” you go for the cocky and confident guy. you go for the guy that can talk to you one day and ignore you completely the next. you go for…

well said, except…

You can’t tell someone you love them if you don’t. Maybe there’s a reason why those guys stayed in the friend zone.. Those guys obviously treated the girl with respect, but they lacked that overwhelming passion, and courage to stand up, and tell the girls their feelings. Even so, if those guys were too scared to mess up the relationship by telling the girl their feelings, the girl obviously wouldn’t know… I mean, yeah when you put it in the guy’s perspective, it makes sense, but when you put it in a girl’s perspective, like… girls can’t help falling for someone, even if they knew that that someone was a bad choice… and obviously it would be more cruel to tell the guy that the girl really loved him if she didn’t. So no, the girl did not miss her chance, because no chance was ever given to the girl to begin with. The guy should have stopped being such a wuss, sucked it up, and went after the girl until her feelings for the guy were made apparent to herself… I mean, there’s things like “oh, the girl should have loved him anyways.. the guy shouldn’t have to go through all of the trouble to get her to like him if she actually thought the guy was worth it/loved him to begin with” or whatever, but again.. people fall in love with other people at different times…….. so maybe while that girl hasn’t found her true love yet, the guy already has… and he shouldn’t give up on her just because that girl was hopelessly lost for that moment in time.